A lot of guys think if they just knew how to make an ex jealous they would have the secret to how to get her back. In fact, it’s not that simple. Let’s see why.
How To Make An Ex Girlfriend Jealous
First let’s be very clear: finding another girlfriend is not the answer.
When you think of making your ex gf jealous, your first thought is probably to make her think you have found somebody new. But that’s actually very risky if you also want to get her to want you back.
Why? Because …
She Must NOT Think You Were Cheating On Her
This is the big mistake many guys make when they’re trying to win back an ex girlfriend. You could end up having her think you were cheating on her all along.
That’s why it’s dangerous to start showing up all over town with another woman right after your relationship ended. Your girlfriend will think, “How long’s he been seeing her?”
If it’s somebody she knows, or somebody you knew before the two of you broke up, it’s even worse. She’ll be half convinced you were seeing this girl – or wanted to – all the time you were together.
And we promise you, if she suspects you were unfaithful to her before the relationship ended, she is NOT going to want you back. She’ll just hate you and never want to see you again.
So don’t go looking for a new girlfriend, real or fake. “Emotional jealousy” is your friend here.
What Do We Mean By “Emotional Jealousy”?
Keep in mind sex is not involved in all relationships. Relationships that don’t involve sex (with kids, with friends) can be longer-lasting and more important in a person’s life than any sexual relationship.
When you think of your ex, it might be the thought of her having sex with other guys that really hurts, but that’s not necessarily true for her. This means making her jealous doesn’t have to be a question of sex.
From her point of view, there’s also what we might call “emotional jealousy”, i.e. jealousy of the place another person might have in your affections or your confidence. Yes, all jealousy is emotional, but we mean her jealousy of YOUR emotions toward other people and things, instead of jealousy of a physical relationship.
You may have seen this at work while your relationship was intact. Maybe she was jealous of the guy friends you spent a lot of time with, your brother or sister that you told all of your troubles to, or even the family dog. In some cases, girls are actually jealous of inanimate objects and abstract activities like a car, motorbike or a ball game on TV.
If you’ve ever heard a girl yelling, “You think more of that damn team than you do of me!” then you’ll know what I mean.
How To Get Your Ex To Want You Back Using “Emotional Jealousy”
So if you want to know how to get your ex gf back, the answer is to cause her to feel jealous of the people or activities that have taken her place in your affections – not in your bed. Show her you’re enjoying being single.
You can find out how to this in Michael Fiore’s guide to how to get your ex back with text messages. But briefly, you need to have her see you giving all your time and interest to somebody or something you’re obviously NOT having sex with.
So pick a way to spend a lot of your time. It should be something new, not the same old best friend or “damn team” that she always disliked. It can be more than one person or activity if you like, but it needs to be something you do out in the open where other people can see you.
Surfing the internet does not count!
Good examples are:
– spending time with a new guy friend in clubs, bars or other public places (not your home or his, and don’t get drunk)
– playing sport in the park
– taking college courses (in a classroom, not online)
– training for a 5 mile run
– taking up some kind of volunteer work that puts you in the public eye (lifeguard, organizing a non-profit fundraiser, helping to restore an old building) – this is a GREAT one
Just be sure it’s something you REALLY enjoy. She needs to think you’ve “fallen in love” with this new activity, not that you’re bored and desperate to fill your days.
It’s important you don’t tell her about your new activity yourself. If you live in a small city, word will get back to her fast.
If you live in a bigger place, you need to be sure to pick something she will hear about. The idea is not for her to see you in person – it’s better if you avoid places she goes herself – but for her friends to see you and report back. You can trust them to do that!
Will This Really Make Her Jealous?
Trust us on this, if there is any hope at all of rekindling her feelings for you, this is an excellent way to do it.
Some of the activities you could pick will also make her think she’s misjudged you. She’ll start to think you are a better/more interesting/smarter person than she ever realized. This is a great way to get her back into your arms.
How To Get Your Ex GF Back: All The Steps
It’s one thing knowing how to make an ex girlfriend jealous, but how to get her back is not so simple. The timing has to be right. She’s not necessarily going to come running back as soon as she hears you’re involved in something new.
If you want to know all of the steps to how to get your ex gf back, you’re not going to find them floating around the internet. Yes you’ll find tons of different advice but a lot of it will conflict, and you need to be consistent.
It’s no good trying one method one week and then switching to another the next. You need to have a clear system that takes you from step one through victory, and you need to know exactly what to do when.
Mike Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back can do that for you. See it here:
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